Gift Exchanges and Secret Santa: Understanding Reciprocal Giving

The Gift Exchange Concept

Gift exchanges, Secret Santa, and White Elephant games involve complex social rules that aren’t intuitive for kids on the spectrum—buying for someone you may not know well, keeping secrets, following specific exchange procedures.

Explaining Gift Exchanges

“A gift exchange means everyone brings one gift.”
“You don’t keep the gift you brought—you give it to someone else.”
“You receive a different gift from someone else.”
“Secret Santa means you buy for one specific person, but they don’t know it’s from you until the party.”

Making Gift Exchanges Work

• Help choose an appropriate gift. Explain the price limit and recipient.
• Practice the exchange procedure. Role-play how it works.
• Prepare for receiving unwanted gifts. Still say thank you.
• Make participation optional. Some exchanges can be skipped.

Ezducate Social Stories

• “Gift Exchanges and Secret Santa”
• “Giving and Receiving Gifts”
• “How Gift Exchanges Work”

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